How Important is Pre-Communication in Setting Expectations?

This is a great topic. My suggestions are the result of scores of years of experience in massage parlors, brothels, escort hotel rooms and also with regular dates.

1. Treat every woman with respect. Look them in the eye when you speak to them. Answer them politely.
2. Depending on the situation, let them know what you expect as soon as is appropriate. If you are in an MP situation and are not sure if extra services are offered, as soon as you are alone with the MMS or the masseuse, say something like: "I would like to get massaged until I explode with joy". Saying something like this, as strange as it seems, will immediately let her know that you want extra services. If she never offers these, she will say something like "Here, only massage." If she giggles, laughs, and takes your hand, you are probably in for a good time.
3. If you are too shy to be so forward, you can certainly remark on her appearance. Every woman is beautiful. Tell her, "Are you really going to be my masseuse? You are so pretty. " That is enough to subtly inform her that your dick will be hard.
4. It is much better if you both speak the same language. So, for better experiences, find women whose English is passable or who speak another shared language. Learn all the seduction and flirt words in her language. She will appreciate that.
5. If she does not speak any language and you do not know hers, you will have to use your hands to communicate. This can be awkward if she is a "legit" masseuse. You may end up with just a massage and sexual frustration. However, if you are at least average good-looking and clean and smell good, and if you are gentle and respectful, your chances will be better. Start off in the standard prone position with your head down. Make sure nothing is covering your butt, no boxers, no towels. When she enters the room, she may or may not cover your butt with a towel. When she asks what kind of massage you like, the best answer is "light". If she asks where you need a massage, its ok to point at your upper legs or butt.
6. Observe her carefully. What is she wearing? Makeup? Short skirt or revealing clothes? Or maybe just underwear?
7. When she gets to massaging your upper legs, you can tell her that it is ok to "go a little higher". If she is wearing a short skirt, you can ask her politely if it is ok for you to massage her legs. Or if you are pretty sure things are going in the right direction, you can just reach under her skirt and massage her inner thighs and butt.
8. If you get rejected on your attempts at mutual massage, your next move will depend on how she rejects you. If it is an outright "No, you cannot touch me.", it is probably all over. If she gently pushes your hand away, try again.
9 When you "flip", dont be afraid to let her see your package especially if you have a hardon. In surveys, most women say they are turned on by seeing that they have excited a man. Let her see it.
10 After your flip, tell her softly and respectfully that you have a lot of tension here, pointing at your cock or even your nipples.

This is a great topic. My suggestions are the result of scores of years of experience in massage parlors, brothels, escort hotel rooms and also with regular dates.

1. Treat every woman with respect. Look them in the eye when you speak to them. Answer them politely.
2. Depending on the situation, let them know what you expect as soon as is appropriate. If you are in an MP situation and are not sure if extra services are offered, as soon as you are alone with the MMS or the masseuse, say something like: "I would like to get massaged until I explode with joy". Saying something like this, as strange as it seems, will immediately let her know that you want extra services. If she never offers these, she will say something like "Here, only massage." If she giggles, laughs, and takes your hand, you are probably in for a good time.
3. If you are too shy to be so forward, you can certainly remark on her appearance. Every woman is beautiful. Tell her, "Are you really going to be my masseuse? You are so pretty. " That is enough to subtly inform her that your dick will be hard.
4. It is much better if you both speak the same language. So, for better experiences, find women whose English is passable or who speak another shared language. Learn all the seduction and flirt words in her language. She will appreciate that.
5. If she does not speak any language and you do not know hers, you will have to use your hands to communicate. This can be awkward if she is a "legit" masseuse. You may end up with just a massage and sexual frustration. However, if you are at least average good-looking and clean and smell good, and if you are gentle and respectful, your chances will be better. Start off in the standard prone position with your head down. Make sure nothing is covering your butt, no boxers, no towels. When she enters the room, she may or may not cover your butt with a towel. When she asks what kind of massage you like, the best answer is "light". If she asks where you need a massage, its ok to point at your upper legs or butt.
6. Observe her carefully. What is she wearing? Makeup? Short skirt or revealing clothes? Or maybe just underwear?
7. When she gets to massaging your upper legs, you can tell her that it is ok to "go a little higher". If she is wearing a short skirt, you can ask her politely if it is ok for you to massage her legs. Or if you are pretty sure things are going in the right direction, you can just reach under her skirt and massage her inner thighs and butt. Spread your legs to give her access to your love sacs. This never hurts and a few times has resulted in an unexpected tongue rimming.
8. If you get rejected on your attempts at mutual massage, your next move will depend on how she rejects you. If it is an outright "No, you cannot touch me," it is probably all over. If she gently pushes your hand away, try again.
9 When you "flip", don't be afraid to let her see your package, especially if you have a hardon. In surveys, most women say they are turned on by seeing that they have excited a man. Your boner means you like her. Let her see it.
10 After your flip, tell her softly and respectfully that you have a lot of tension here, pointing at your cock or even your nipples.
11. Never force or coerce. Blue balls are better than hurting another human being.